Twenty Years and A Proposal

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A few weeks ago I shared these two photos to celebrate the day my Sweetie (finally) asked for my hand in marriage (yippee! ) sixteen years ago. So I thought i would share them here also, with a bit more info about that exciting day. :)

First off, I met his cousin TWENTY years ago last May while working at The Cannon Beach Christian Conference Center. We hit it off immediately and our friendship has only grown stronger over the past twenty years. We’re actually more like sisters than just friends. :) Over that first summer she would have relatives visit, but I somehow didn’t meet any of them…until HE came to see her that August. As she introduced us and we shook hands, God told me he was the one I would marry. I didn’t argue. He was/is pretty handsome! And fun! It’s a good thing God let me in on the plan, since I ended up having to wait four years for the proposal!

This life shattering news threw me for a loop because I had big plans…I was leaving the country in a short three months to serve as a missionary in Ireland for a year. I pursued him anyway, keeping Elizabeth Elliot’s advice in mind, of course, which means I didn’t TELL him I was going to marry him. I did, however, make it clear that I was interested. At the time, he was also interested in me…as well as some others. This, of course, made me crazy! He stayed on to help for a couple of months to fill in where needed. Yay! I would say there was no official dating at this point, but lots of group activities, and a few non-group activities.

But I was twitterpated, and came close to canceling my plans for missionary work in order to be around, just in case. I was supposed to marry him after all. In the end, I decided to keep my commitment and call, so I headed off and settled for letter writing with this great guy. It sure would have been more fun these days with email, Facebook and Skype!! I definitely don’t regret sticking to that commitment. That year, that turned into two and could have ended up being even longer if it weren’t for a certain handsome guy I was thinking about, led to twenty year friendships and visits back to the gorgeous green isle to visit those loving and gracious friends. I wouldn’t trade that time!

So then I came home and several months later he moved to be where I was, and this time he was only interested in ME! We started officially dating and after awhile (several months) people seemed to constantly be asking me if he had proposed, especially after holidays like Christmas and Valentine’s Day. I finally started responding by reminding them that I’m the woman. I’m not the one to propose, the man is. They finally began asking him instead, but he wasn’t ready. It turns out he thought he might need another year to decide. After a few months of this, we felt we were at an impasse, I didn’t want to get even closer to him and his family, only to have him decide I wasn’t the one for him, and he wanted to be absolutely sure about the decision. I was always struggling with what I felt God had said to me four years earlier, and the message I was getting from my sweetie. At the time, I was working with the church youth group and singing on the worship team. The leader for both of those was also the associate pastor at our church, so we decided to meet with him and his wife for some counseling on the matter. They agreed we were at an impasse, and as I couldn’t think of a solution, we broke up. He was concerned about how he would propose now if he decided to, since I felt it best we not even talk for awhile. We were both heartbroken and miserable, but three weeks later, after prayer, fasting and many chats with long-married couples I learned, he proposed, just four years and two months after we met. Haha! He knew after all. I was stunned, especially since I hadn’t read the pre-proposal letter he had written to prepare me in case I wasn’t receptive to seeing him. I wasn’t even sure if I uttered the word “yes” out loud. He assures me that I did. Little did he know…I didn’t need a letter if I was getting the RING!! :)

DSCN6161Those daisies (my favorite) in the background had a letter attached to prepare me, but I didn’t read it until afterward. My friend wanted to see inside the chapel (read, leave me alone to read), so I went in to show her. In the foyer, I saw my Sweetie hiding, wearing his suit and holding a rose…surprise spoiled. :)

We had a fantastic day! He had wanted to propose at the beautiful Multnomah Falls, but our friend that was helping him secretly plan couldn’t tell me what was going on, so I said I had laundry and lesson planning and no time for all of that that day. Haha! So after the proposal at Multnomah Bible School’s darling Prayer Chapel, I spent the day with my new fiance’, NOT laundry and lesson planning!! :)

The proposal was after church, so then we went to lunch at the Irish Bank (now closed : /) in the “private” booth we had always admired, think curtains, but a window to the street, then found a Greek Festival with yummy food, music and dancing! We had a great day!! And we were engaged!!  :)

Since our engagement happened in October, which was the month I always wanted to get married in with all of the gorgeous autumn colored leaves, (autumn is my favorite season when I live in places with crisp, cool air and the great colors), we had to figure out a different month for the wedding, because I wasn’t waiting ANOTHER year to get married! We finally decided on March with an Irish theme, since we both have Irish roots, and I obviously have a soft spot for the country and people. That’s pretty much the story. A short engagement and then a wedding! If you want more about the wedding day, you can find it HERE and HERE.

I’m so thankful for my Sweetie! :>

Lord’s Day Scriptures: Awesome Majesty

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Where I’ve lived the past 10 years, we don’t really have autumn and I’m always on a search for bits of that favorite season of mine. Today I stumbled on a pretty reddish leaf, which led me to more leaves and a tree with even more, although it was still mostly green.

I was so excited, I wanted to shout with joy! Why aren’t there ever other people around at these moments? :>

I’m so thankful for God’s GOLDEN SPLENDOR and AWESOME MAJESTY, including what we see here on earth, and more importantly, God’s own!

I love the way my Lord surprises me in these little ways with perks I need so very much at those moments. One little leaf gave me such pure joy that I could hardly bear the joy of seeing the rest of them! That’s the special care of a God who loves me so much, and brings simple joy from His own amazing creation! Thank you Lord!

Here are my wonderful leaves in phone photos:

IMG_4559I collected a few. :>

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And our magnificent rock:

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God creates beautiful things!

(I found the image on Facebook and don’t know who’s it is)

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Book Review: Miracle in a Dry Season

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It’s time for another book review! This is brand new author, this is her first book, and I really enjoyed it. :>

Here’s the summary:

Miracle in a Dry Season by Sarah Loudin Thomas

“In a Drought, It’s the Darkest Cloud
That Brings Hope

It’s 1954 and Perla Long’s arrival in the sleepy town of Wise, West Virginia, was supposed to go unnoticed. She just wants a quiet, safe place for her and her daughter, Sadie, where the mistakes of her past can stay hidden. But then drought comes to Wise, and Perla is pulled into the turmoil of a town desperately in need of a miracle.

Casewell Phillips has resigned himself to life as a bachelor…until he meets Perla. She’s everything he’s sought in a woman, but he can’t get past the sense that she’s hiding something. As the drought worsens, Perla’s unique gift divides the town in two, bringing both gratitude and condemnation, and placing the pair in the middle of a storm of anger and forgiveness, fear and faith.”

The theme throughout the book is forgiveness. It’s a great reminder that there is a fine line between accountability and forgiveness, and it’s often difficult to see the right move God asks of us. And that only the Lord truly knows the heart of each Person. It’s also natural to wonder if someone is truly repentant if they aren’t displaying outward remorse for their sin. It’s great to think about these challenges and to see how the characters faced them as they learned more about God’s forgiveness. It isn’t just the main characters dealing with this issue either, there are quite a few characters judging (the way only God gets to), judging (as in accountability) and forgiving. So much healing takes place as the town struggles through drought, food and water shortages, blame, fear and desperation for rain. I also love that Perla’s daughter, Sadie is used in big ways to show the path to forgiveness. We can often learn from children, just as they learn from us.

The bottom line? God forgives, and tells us to forgive. Sometimes that’s easier said, than done, but always worth the work. We all need forgiveness!

Jesus (Christ) said, “I don’t condemn you, go sin no more.” John 8:11b

(I received a complimentary copy of this book from Bethany House in exchange for my honest review).

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Lord’s Day Scriptures: I Am God

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I needed this reminder this week. When I’m struggling, when I’m dealing with health issues that keep hanging on, I need to remember that God is always here, He never changes, He is always faithful. This verse says so much, because my Lord is SO MUCH! “Know that I am God” is a sentence filled with so much encouragement and hope. He is true, fair, just, loving, holy, righteous, gracious, forgiving, never-ending, a promise keeper…the list goes on and on…and I’m so grateful and thankful!

 

So I’ll keep working on being still and try to remember that HE IS GOD! That he’s in control, has a plan and know what’s best for me. Even when it doesn’t feel like it. Because He loves me more than I can know! :>

 

Be still and know that He is God this week!

 

 

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Modest Monday: Danish Days

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Last weekend we went to the annual Danish Days in Solvang. It’s always a lot of fun with Danish dancing, music and Swedish Delight, my favorite desert! It’s so perfect with meringue, chocolate and almond bits and whipped cream, light, yummy goodness!I decided to wear this sundress with a peasant top as sort of a modern way to dress up instead of a costume. I also needed something super cool, as it’s even hotter inland in Solvang, and this fit the bill.

 

These photos turned out better than I expected at the end of a hot, humid (read frizzy) and windy day. :>

 

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I’ve been wearing my hair in a braid a LOT the past couple of years during this hot drought, and one day I tucked it up into the top of itself and realized it was a fun new style! For this day I added a little daisy attached to a hairpin. An easy and fun new style!

 

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My Sweetie and I even did a little dancing!

 

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Lord’s Day Scripture: The God of All Comfort

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Reading God’s words brings me such comfort…and joy…and hope. He promises so many times that He will always be here…for little ole me. That He loves me. And knows what is best for me. And not only knows, but gives me the best things for me. And that one day all of this suffering will end…AND I’ll be with Him FOREVER. Now THAT’S a promise!!   :>

 

So…I try to hold on. Even though it’s often a struggle. And I’d rather escape all of the trials and daily pain…physical and emotional. But, for now, I still have a job to do. To show others who Christ is, and that I need Him, but so do you. We all need Him. So, I’ll try to be patient And wait. Because the right time will come. And then I’ll rejoice, FOREVER.

 

So in the meantime Lord, thanks for all of that comfort You’re offering. Because I really need it!!

 

Have a great week!

 

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Modest Monday: Ellie from “Up” and a Pixar Party

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Last Friday we celebrated the 23rd birthday of a dear young lady in our lives who is kind of like a daughter/niece to us. It’s always such a special time with dear young people we love so much. She decided to have a Pixar/Disney themed party, so I decided to dress like Ellie from “Up” and make her an “Up” themed gift. (You’ll see that at the end of the post) :)

 

My dress isn’t one of Ellie’s actual dresses, but the one I found was perfect in it’s style and era, so it worked. The birthday girl guessed who I was, that’s what matters!!

 

I rushed to take some photos for her as it was getting dark, and we took my photos at the end of the party, inside, after the humidity wreaked it’s havoc on my hair. Haha!

 

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I’ll need to make a more permanent modesty panel for the new dress. Love those daisies!!! :)

 

Now to the party pictures:

 

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Sally from “Cars.”

 

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Gifts!

 

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Hello cuties…and balloons and popcorn for the movie!!

 

 

 

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The spread and pretty flowers.

 

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The Ice Cream Cake! Yummy!!

 

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And the movie!

 

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And here’s the gift I made for her with the “Up” theme because she loves that film soooooooo much!!

 

Have a great week!

 

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